Please share your methods of selfhosting a website or blog.

I have come across a https://nostrapps.com/shakespeare, that wants me to fuel an AI machine to generate my website, and then it would supposedly deploy it locally (which seems not to be the case - how could it be, unless you run a webserver), so on the deploy image they give you the option of:

• Shakespear Deploy Server
• Nsite for static websites, which I found here: https://nsite.run/ which is probably made by: https://github.com/sandwichfarm/nsite.run, which is backed by blossom file servers, right?
• netlify
• vercel
• cloudflare worker
• deno deploy

https://nostr.net/ pointed me to

• https://github.com/asmogo/nws

On github I found

• Embed Nostr anywhere on the internet, a Zap Button for every webpage nostr-components.web.app/
• Then I have come across this repo for people running there own server: https://github.com/quentintaranpino/nostrcheck-server

because i found on https://blog.nostrize.me/tag/nostr.html, I share it. Might come in handy when self hosting:

• Workflow Automation for Nostr

Can anyone comment on the tools I just threw in the air?
Is there some structure behind these tools? For instance I read about NIP-5a somewhere.
Is there some common Nostr- web development stack?
MERN/React.js
MEAN/Node.js
LAMP/WordPress
MEVN/Vue.JS
Ruby On Rails/Ruby
Django/Python
NET/Microsoft
JAMSTACK/Static Sites
Best practices, Know how... Throw it in!